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As I reflect on the past year since publishing Mama’s Love Language: Sometimes Love Tastes Like Hainan Chicken Rice, gratitude fills my heart. In the spirit of Thanksgiving, I want to share a few moments that have sustained and inspired me in this journey.
In a society where colors merge,
Multiracial charm rises above.
Two worlds in one, a special fusion,
Appreciation in all shades, we offer.
Embracing both heritages with elegance,
Discovering beauty in each countenance.
Strength in variety, harmony in color,
Thankful for the blend, both past and present.
With open hearts, we rejoice,
In the abundance of our shared destiny.
Multiracial advantages, a magnificent present,
Appreciation flourishes in this varied terrain.
Last November, the book hit its one-year anniversary, bringing back a ton of memories and making me reflect on the journey from the first draft to a whole year of sharing Mama's Love Language with readers all over the globe. Writing the book was just the start of the adventure; talking about it, exploring its themes, and most importantly, seeing how it has impacted readers have been incredibly transformative experiences.
This Fall, during my European book tour, I had the opportunity to read Mama’s Love Language to children across various cities in Paris and London. One particular reading session in Paris stayed with me. As I shared the story, I could see the spark in the kids’ eyes—moments of recognition, understanding, and connection. So many of them were living out experiences similar to those of the young character in the book, navigating the beautiful complexities of being raised in a multicultural family. Most international students are weaving their lives in at least two or more languages, cultures, and extended families. I remember my upbringing as an expat going to a British school in Hong Kong. Seeing their joy, empathy, and relief as they connected with the story renewed my own commitment to this journey.
For every late night of writing, every moment of self-doubt, and every hurdle in bringing this book to life, these kids were a reminder of why Mama’s Love Language exists. Their connection with the story shows me the importance of representation in children's literature—how books can be mirrors reflecting young lives and experiences back to them in all their beautiful diversity.
As Thanksgiving approaches, I feel grateful for everyone who has helped bring Mama’s Love Language to life. To the families who’ve shared their stories, the readers who’ve written me letters, and the bookstores that have hosted events—thank you. Each one of you has helped me keep going and reminded me of the power of storytelling to bridge cultures, experiences, and hearts.
This Thanksgiving as you bring out your turkey, egg rolls, escargot, or any family dish passed on by generation, and become a staple of your multicultural family, please realize you are creating rituals for the next generation. With this US election, I am reminded that we all need to do our part to create value in the person right in front of us. My son studied Athenian democracy in his 6th grade class and the democracy only allowed less than 20% of the population to vote. We live in a country where all adult citizens have the right to vote. Not every citizen exercises this right, and we have work to do to share what our forefathers and mothers did to fight for liberties. I appreciate women like Susan B Anthony who fought for women's suffrage. She passed away before the 19th Amendment was passed. With this right, we have forgotten the chance each citizen has to change their country. This may include having a dialogue with a family member you don’t agree politically with, or a neighbor that you don’t know well, or even the child you tuck into bed every night. Each person is deserving of respect and dignity. It is up to each of us to be a president in our own lives to lead the next generation of peacebuilders and connectors.
I’m reminded to keep writing, sharing and celebrating the voices of multicultural families. Thank you for being part of this journey. Wishing everyone a Happy Thanksgiving with warm conversation, full bellies, and joy as we have the opportunity to live in this present moment.
Stay healthy this holiday season with a warm bowl of "jook" or congee, a delicious rice porridge from my childhood. It only takes a few ingredients and you can put on your favorite movie and let the magic happen with this Instapot Chicken Congee.
Let me know what you think! Grateful to all of your support!
Elisa Stad
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